When is the last time someone was angry with you? How did you handle it?
One-Minute Writings of the Day:Writers: Geeta & Gina (I chose two winners today.)Geeta wrote:I apologized.
Granted, they were angry with me for being somewhat of a b----. It wasn't intentional, it was just one of those days.
There was a time when I'd shrug my shoulders and think "oh well, that's their problem." I was to stubborn to admit maybe I had been in the wrong.
Well, I guess it's a sign I'm growing up - or at the very least, gaining a bit of maturity.
It may take a little while, but if I realize someone is upset with me and it's potentially my fault, I know that I should and can apologize - and the anger will dissipate like fog beneath bright sunshine.
Gina wrote:My answer was different until I read Geeta's. I have the opposite problem. Having spent my entire life apologizing for everything as if all the world's ills were my fault, I'm learning to say, "that's your issue". No more do I say an automatic "I'm sorry". Now it's "I'm sorry you feel that way but I didn't make you feel this way".
Which, of course, means that most arguments I have now are about oppression ... mine. It's hard to get people to realize that you are taking back your independence when you've let them think you don't want it.
Congratulations, Geeta & Gina! I really admire how you've both changed, and how you both expressed yourselves. Feel free to put One-Minute Writer WINNER! buttons on your blogs!